1. The Ex Factor - 3 Babies by 3 Different Women
He is STILL popping up. *sigh* Last time I discussed him, he was trying to make it work with baby mama #3. Well, low and behold, they didn't last (surprised? I'm not). The good news is, he hasn't gotten any one else pregnant. The bad news? He won't stop calling me.
I made the mistake of texting him a happy father's day. Since then, I haven't been able to shake him.
I recently was home (that's DC, for those of you in the cheap seats) and he knew I would be there. I was in town for a dear friend's birthday cookout and ended up with a full slate of activities. Well, apparently, he thought me being in town somehow meant he would get to see me and we would spend time together
. Clearly, we didn't agree on the meaning. So imagine my surprise when I'm sitting on the airplane, on the runway, 2 hours delayed and less than pleased, when he calls and says hes planned an outing to a museum for Saturday . Wait, what? Why are you planning dates? Why would you think I want to date you? Especially given your 3 baby mamas and 3 kids (one of whom was conceived while he and I were still together). I had to put an end to his shenanigans. Unfortunately, he's still playing too much and calling trying to stroll down memory lane. Boy, BYE!2. The one that got away, that doesn't stick around but doesn't ever disappear, either.
So the last time I wrote about J it was February and we promised to try to make it work. Well, we tried, for another two months and then, surprise, surprise he fell off the face of the earth again. I wasn't hardly surprised and pretty much just let him go. I wasn't about to chase him, again.
Well, lookey here, I start liking someone and here he comes, OWT of the blue. Surprised? I wasn't. I swear he has some sort of happiness homing device on me, and when it appears I'm approaching a certain level of happiness and contentment, he shows up. I returned his call with a voice mail - of course he didn't answer, that would be too easy. A few texts were exchanged until I asked - so, what prompted your most recent disappearing act? Now, silence. Perhaps its for the best. I'm not sure I trust my reaction to him or his ability to weasel his way back into my life.
3. Yeah, I like someone. Mind your business.
4. Friends, How many of us have them?
I haven't spoken on this since the end of last summer. I really thought things were getting better, but alas, its that time of year again. I am still having the same issues, with the same people. I need to go ahead and work up the nerve to tell them that I need to separate myself from them and that my relationship with them is not healthy or productive for me. But I know, in my heart of hearts, they are genuinely good people...its just that they aren't doing good, for whatever reason and that's what makes this SO difficult. They say misery loves company, and I'm trying to NOT get sucked in too. Its HARD to tell someone you love them, but they are no good for you.
5. People are still playing ENTIRELY too much.
I don't know what else to say about this, except that its time for another volume of the some people play too much chronicles. Stay tuned.
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